Distance Learning Week
Monday, November 9th, 2009
In honor of Distance Learning Week, I thought I’d post on a distance learning topic I’ve not yet addressed: juggling school and work and Real Life. I’ve been a full-time distance student (3 classes per semester), part time environmental consultant, and full time wife/mom for the past year and a half. Throw in fieldwork and student teaching, and it gets more complicated! Anyone who is a distance student knows that it isn’t easy constantly shifting gears between school-work-home. But after a while you get into a rhythm and it gets easier. Here are a few things I’ve learned during my program:
- Order your books early (as soon as the draft syllabus is released) so they have time to ship before classes start.
- Be very organized. Each semester, set up a calendar for yourself (I use an Excel spreadsheet, but others I know use an online or paper calendar) to help you keep track of due dates for major assignments in all of your classes. You will have weeks with more than one major assignment due (and chances are those will coincide with your child’s birthday party, a major presentation at work, and your best friend’s baby shower), so you may need to start certain assignments early so that you have time to get everything done.
- Plan ahead for student teaching and internships. Most likely you will need to either quit or take a leave of absence from your regular job (if you have one) while you do your student teaching or internship. Set up your fieldwork and student teaching contacts at least a semester ahead of your anticipated start date, and make sure your employer has time to make arrangements for your absence. If necessary try to have some extra savings or student loans to help financially during the time when you have no income.
- Plan time for your family. It is all too easy to get bogged down with everything you have to do. If you have a family, you will probably have a lot of guilt that you don’t have as much time for them as you normally would. Be open and honest with your children about what you are doing and make sure they know how hard you are working. If possible, do homework side by side. You are setting a great example for them! Eat dinner together and talk about what is going on with them. Make sure you plan time each week for some fun activity together. You will appreciate your fun time together more than you ever did, and that is a gift in and of itself.
- Don’t sweat the small stuff. Things are going to be different while you are in school – you can’t possibly do everything you always do and devote adequate time and energy to an online program. Some distance students I know do a lot of cooking on the weekends so they can freeze quick meals for the week. Most of us let the housework go. You may have to drop some volunteer work or social commitments. Make things as easy on yourself as possible. If you are like me, this was a good exercise in learning to say “no,” and I hope to keep this newfound skill!
- Be good to your significant other. Undoubtedly, your significant other will need to shoulder a bit more of the household and/or child care burden while you are completing your program. They will do this with less complaint if you frequently express your appreciation for their efforts. Share your successes (good grades, semesters completed) so that they see how their efforts are helping you. And make sure you carve out couple time on a regular basis. Take a little time each day to go for a walk or sit and talk without the computer on (believe me, your significant other will come to loathe your laptop!). Daily connections are crucial. Try to plan “dates” as often as you can for longer opportunities to reconnect. You are working hard and going through a lot, but don’t forget that your partner is also affected!
- Communicate. Keep in touch with your fellow students, and your personal support network – online or in person. Your fellow students are a great resource, as they know exactly what you are going through! Use facebook, twitter, online chat, Skype, and the LMS to keep in touch, get support, bounce ideas, or check to make sure you understand assignments. Just remember not to rant on the LMS message boards or online public forums (which includes facebook). A rant can definitely come back to haunt you. If you have questions or concerns, don’t hesitate to email or call your professors. They are very willing to help. If you have a family emergency, let them know as soon as possible so that accommodations can be made.
- Treat yourself. Take it easy on yourself, and treat yourself with things that make you happy. Eat healthy and sleep as much as you can. I don’t sleep enough during the week, but I always try to set aside at least one weekend night when I can catch up on sleep and my family has strict instructions NOT to wake me. Between semesters, read good books, catch up with friends, have fun and rest!
- Appreciate this special time. And remember, this is all temporary.
Here are some other distance learning resources available to iSchool students:
Syracuse iSchool Distance Learners group on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=123426056551&ref=ts
OrangeLearners Blog – ischool distance learning blog: http://orangelearners.wordpress.com/
iSchool National Distance Learning Week Web site: http://ischool.syr.edu/ilife/ndl/
Also, I will be participating in a live distance learning forum on Thursday, November 12 from 2-3 pm ET online via Adobe Connect. Feel free to join us! Details are here.
Posted by Rebecca Buerkett, Syracuse MLIS distance student, rlbuerke@syr.edu.